In her book “Body of Knowledge: 8 Rules of Model Behavior”, Heidi Klum shares “I know I've had a lot of success. But it didn't happen by accident. [it's] all about making the most out of what I have.”
Chapter One is called “You have to want it, baby” and it's all about DESIRE.
Ask yourself what it is that you want to create in your life right now. Do you have a clear picture? Did something pop into your mind right away? Are you fuzzy or crystal clear about your vision for your life? (for more help getting clear, click here)
When it comes to success and happiness, DESIRE is a big factor. Are you going to throw your hands up in the air when the going gets tough? How bad do you want this? If you are only willing to do what's easy, life will be hard. If you are willing to do what's hard, life will be easy. I believe there are times when it's best to surrender and times when You've got to want it, baby! Here's an excerpt from Heidi's book;
10 Compliments You'd Love to Earn
“Boy, you don't take no for an answer, do you?”
“How'd you pull that off?”
“You're glowing!” (Doesn't count if you're pregnant. Or drunk.)
“I'd be honored to be your wingman.”
“Who does your wardrobe?” (Especially if the answer is you.)
“I could learn a lot from you.”
“You're a human Energizer bunny.”
“You handled that situation nicely.”
“When did you have time to do all that?”
“Great ass!” (double points if from the same sex)
(copyright 2004 by Heidi Klum Company LLC, Three Rivers Press)
Do you see a theme here? Heide has accomplished some pretty great things, super model, super Hot Mogul, super hot hubby, mom to four(!), but from reading her book you can definitely tell that her success is no accident.
When I get tired or am feeling like I should be further along, accomplishing more, blah, blah, blah, I look for inspiration and motivation in other successful people. Usually it's easy to see that success does not “just happen”, it's a series of daily choices, moment-to-moment we are designing our lives.
What does your IDEAL LIFESTYLE look like?
I'd love to hear your comments!
